come on men, don't treat your woman like that!

Sure its fun to go out and do whatever the hell you want, drink, go clubbing, smoke and whatever else men like doing but do you really gotta be a jerk when it comes to women? What's the point of playing with a woman? I don't see any fun in it. Specially when its more than one woman at a time. You get laid and she gets another bad experience with a guy. Congrats asshole, you just ruined for us real men.
So what are you guys gonna do once you are 50, 60 and all your pals are old like you, they can barely walk without the help of their cane, some are going blind and deaf. You are growing old and you got no one. No wife, no kids, no grand kids. You going to be like those old people who hate everything and everyone. Worst of all alone. Because i guarantee you, the woman you are with right now, the one you treat like shit, lie and cheat on will leave you one day. And once that day comes, you are doomed. You think you are going to find someone after you are over 50? You might, a divorced woman with kids and grand kids. Think you can handle all that at once? Doubt it after your young crazy party life.
Find a woman that you can see yourself being with, at least for the time being. If she is pretty, got a big butt or boobs, or if she likes doing the same stuff as you do. That would be enough for a relationship. Be with her, treat her well, surprise her with gifts, flowers, cooking for her every once in a while. Women LOVE the little things. If she goes do her hair or nails, remember to compliment it, they love that.
If problems start to rise, try to settle them as easy and calm as you can. Don't get violent, loud and don't leave wherever you are to meet up with friends to get drunk, do drugs or pick up a random chick. Try to work it out. If the problems continue, sit down and have a frank conversation about it. That's the best think you can do, talk about. If it keeps up than take a break. But think twice about sleeping with someone while on a break or recently broken up.
If you like being with that woman than think twice about playing with her. Think about the future... She will be pregnant, carry your kid around for 9 months than go through an incredible amount of pain when he is born, she is going to be cooking for you, house will always be nice and clean when you get home from work, your beautiful and maybe bratty kid will grow up and give you grand kids. She will always be there for you the good and bad like panic attacks, heart attacks, stroke, cancer, she will always be there taking care of you.
The now is fun sure, you are young and you do all the things you love but think long term, the future. What is there for you in the future? A woman you really like or nobody because you decided to be an asshole to women? Women are amazing, they are lovely, beautiful, they are princess, treat them like one!

set out goals.

Remember back in middle school or high school when your teachers would tell you to write a paper about where you want to be in 5 or 10 years? I found the essay i wrote in high school few days ago and I laughed the whole time. Back than i didn't care for much anything and somewhat took that as a joke. Now that I'm older, I look back i think of the things I could had done differently and where I might be now.
So i have decided to make myself a Bucket List. And hang it up on my wall. Somewhere that I'll see it all the time. To sort of remind me of all the things I want to do and accomplish in life before I die. It might seem silly but it's not. It's a really great way to always have that in the back of my mind.
I have a lot of things I dream of. So what's the first thing on my list? Buy a beach house.
What's would be yours?

never get in the middle, it never ends well..

Never ever get in the middle of 2 people, it never ends well!
It doesn't matter if you are friends or family. If you get in the middle, 1 it will not end well, 2 well it's done you are going to get an ear full and 3 one of the two people will be very mad at you.
Friends is bad because you like one person a lot and the other you have come to like because they are always around now that they are dating. You want your friends to be happy but yet the other you don't to be hurt. But whatever you do don't try to help one of them when there is a fight or a breakup. Specially the person who is not your friend. Friends are hard to come by, you don't want to lose that friendship. When something like this comes by again and you see it happening, you ignore what's going on. If you feel like you have something to say, don't. Or to help, you help YOUR friend IF he ASKS you.
I've learned to ignore the fights and arguments between my mother and her stupid ass boyfriend. Yes i hate the guy because he is an asshole but now i don't get in the middle cuz almost always when I did my mother would let it all out on me when I had nothing to do with it. So now i ignore it and keep on doing whatever it is that i'm doing. Same will now apply for my friends.

Come on women open your eyes!

So what is the deal with women dating the bad boy, the jerks, the assholes? l really don't get it. Is it a fantasy, is it a turn on or do they enjoy being treated like shit?
I can see some women wanting to date a guy that resembles their dad or a guy who takes charge. But why the asshole guy that treats you like shit? For yeeeears I had lady friends come to me for advice and ask my opinion and ALL of those times was because they were dating some asshole who considered himself a "bad boy". I've heard it all, guy goes out with his friends and leaves her hanging, guy goes drinking and does drugs, guy rather stay at his house playing video games, guy just ignores the girlfriend's calls and texts.
I can understand a guy wanting some time alone but not being an asshole just because he wants to. Women who get cheated on, lied to, had a hand raised to them and threatening to hit them... what's the point of being with a guy like that? The thrill? "oh i love him." How could you possibly love a guy that cheats, lies, ignores and threatens to hit you? That is not love!
Do you women seriously think you have a future with a man like that? How would you like to go through the rest of your life if you have a kid with a guy like that? Do you think he is going to change if one day you 2 get married? One day those little arguments will turn to fights and him eventually disappearing and doing god knows what.
Don't be afraid to leave a guy like that. You are not going to be single and alone the rest of your life!! That is not true! All you women in the world are gorgeous in your own way and you all have something great about you that will have a guy going crazy about you! You will always find someone better out there.

immigration...

I know a lot of Americans are against immigrants, that they think illegal immigrants are taking over the jobs of hard work Americans and what not. But what about the people that came here like myself when we were little kids? Do we deserve to be rounded up and kicked out of the country? A lot of the people that came here when they were really young consider themselves Americans and want nothing to do with their country.
Not only that but we are also the future of this country. The economy has gone down the drain. Now think about it, there are millions of illegal immigrants in this country. A lot of us want to go to school, buy a house, buy a car, open our own business. But we can't because we do not have a social security. This country could make so much money out of us illegal immigrants. Immigrations fees, Fees for staying in this country illegally, lawyers fees, people buy cars, buying houses, opening businesses, kids going to college, all of those people HAVING to pay taxes. That would be such a HUGE economy boost!
But do it right, if you have a dirty sheet in this country sorry you are out, if you came here through mexico you are out, if you have a letter of deportation you are out. You are welcome to try and come back in 5 years though, but we can't guarantee you will be able to. But if we here for years, we never been arrested or anything wrong other than stay here beyond our visa date than make us legal.
I really don't get why some American's hate illegal immigrants so much. Those people do the jobs that some of you don't want to do, clean people's toilet, build your houses, clean your yards, take care of the kids you made...

Don't promise something if you can't keep it...

I have no respect for people who does a lot of things but most recently a new one for me is people who go back on their word and breaks a promise. Not only is that disrespectful but when you make a promise, almost every single time the other person is very happy and looking forward to it. Making plans, already making decisions along the way. I was really counting on this person to help me as she promised, something that would completely turn my life around and help me in every aspect of my life.
If you are one those people think twice before making a promise to someone else and think twice before you break your promise. It can really be heartbreaking and annoying.