where is the respect?

Ok so look I have no problems for gay people. If I could I would vote in favor of same sex marriages, they deserve the same right as anyone else. They are also human like any other man or woman. BUT I DON'T appreciate being checked out, stared at, fantasied or ANYTHING like that when I'm at the gym taking a shower and changing. That's very disrespectful! SPECIALLY when after i leave the showers to go get changed and that person is staring at me, touching himself and making sure that on my way out I'll see it.